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Tuesday, January 1, 2019

2019 Goals and Plans

2019 is now and its the year I'm going to plan to be my greatest yet...here are my plans and goals!

Travel Plans



  • Take our dream vacation of skiing and snowboarding the Swiss Alps in February
  • Take a friends vacation with our best friends Paul and Lauren in the late Summer
  • Take several small trips to places like Seattle, Charleston, and Hot springs
  • I really would like to spend Christmas 2019 exploring the Christmas markets in Germany and then spending the actual holiday in Holland with family!


Lifestyle and Personal Plans



  • A lot of self-care and self-love happened in 2018 and I really want to continue that and am it up in 2019 like...up my fitness and meal prep game and make it part of my everyday lifestyle again, take care of my skin, and continue to work on my mental health of balancing it all
  • Try new gardening techniques and have a successful year round garden
  • Do small tasks everyday to constantly stay on top of household things like cleaning, laundry, and dishes to take off the stress of big tasks building up

How I'm going to make it happen




  • I'm going to crush the car with my so fancy new planner of course.  This year I loved this simple and fun design by Erin Condren so I switched back to this planner vs the Plum Paper planners I had been using in past years.  I love all the functions of both planners it each year it simply comes down to looks for me.  Both GREAT options if you're in the market. 
  • I'm going to make small daily goals to help stay on track not just huge goals that sometimes can overwhelm.
  • Have accountability partners like Hendrik, close friends and my trainers
  • Always keep my end goals in focus so I don't forget what I'm working towards
  • Try to remember and understand that not accomplishing something 100% doesn't have to mean 0%....if 30% is all that happens that day it is always better than 0%




I wish everyone a Happy New Year!

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

2018 in Review

Boy did 2018 fly by...Looking back on the year I see how busy I was, how much I have tried to grow internally, and also how I can do better.  So ready or not 2019 is coming at us FAST so let me do a great review of 2018 so we can start out 2019 on the right foot.  First, let's take a look at my goals for 2018 that I compiled at the end of 2017....

2018 Goals: updates in blue
  • Read 15 books-BEST BOOK REVIEW OF 2018 read fully 12 and have 3 in the works hopefully I'll finish a few before the end of the year in a couple weeks
  • Practice self love- make exercise a must not an option, get back on my healthy eating, drinking plenty of water, and take care of my skin and hair- still working on this
  • Get dressed for work in REAL clothes 3 to 4 times a week and only wear Tri County apparel once a week on Friday's- HAHAHAHAHA yeah maybe next year
  • Cut down on watching TV during the week and utilize those hours blogging, reading, or working in my home office- some weeks this happened and some it didn't 
  • Work on my yard and have the best garden of all my gardens- added and did more/ different things and had a good garden but wasn't the best YET
  • Cook new recipes each month- yes I feel like I did accomplish this goal with the help of me enrolling in a subscription service called eMeals.  LOVE IT
  • Take weekend trips either with Hendrik or my girlfriends or both- NOLA, Charleston, Palm Springs, Miami- travelled so much this year and Hendrik and I did knock out a NOLA long weekend trip
  • Go on a mother daughter tour of Italy- YES done 
  • Visit 2 new countries with Hendrik- visited El Salvador so only hit 1 new one this year
  • Use my time at work and be the best boss babe to maximize efficiency and be less stressed- feel like I have worked on this constantly all year and although I have gotten way better I can still continue to work on this
  • Relax and enjoy all those little moments rather than worry and looking past them- really been working on this and the last 5 months or so have done way better at this

As you can see I accomplished some goals, a few I didn't, and others I maybe didn't complete them fully but I did work on them which is better than nothing.  Lets take a fuller look at 2018


January
- I took a trip to Austin for BMT training with my team HERE
- Hendrik and I went with Paul and Lauren to a Kid Rock concert to celebrate Paul's birthday HERE

February
- Had a staycation in Dallas and tried some new restaurants HERE


March- Hendrik and I traveled to El Salvador HERE


April- went on a girl's trip to Waco HERE


May- Hosted an epic Mother's Day Brunch that I hope will become tradition HERE





June
- Harvested my first ever crop of carrots and potatoes from my garden
- Went on a once in a lifetime trip with my Mom to Europe HERE


July- Went to Oklahoma with Paul and Lauren for some kayaking

August
- girls trip to Oklahoma to see Backstreet Boys (concert was cancelled) but had awesome time
- spent time refreshing different nooks and crannies in my house and catching up on a ton of work


September
- annual Mexico trip for Hendrik's birthday HERE
- got a new Jeep



October
- took Case to the state fair HERE 
- spent the weekend in Denver for a BMT seminar with my team HERE 


November- spend Veteran's day weekend in New Orleans with Hendrik HERE



December
- hunted down our first real Christmas Tree Griswold style (my first since I was a teenager but OUR first together)
- turned 32
- December is and has been always busy with family plans, wrapping up year end work, and trying to survive through end of year

Over the year we have been so busy with so many activities and travel and work and life but also a trying year in that I'm really trying to learn to balance all the things life throws at us.  I'm still not all the way back on my fitness and personal health routine like I want to be but I'm taking one day at a time and that is my focus.  Ready to move forward with growth, positive vibes, and fun plans in 2019!

Monday, November 26, 2018

Mental Health is Important


Mental health is such a hot topic these days from the abundance of suicides to postpartum moms as well as anything and everything in between mental health deserves to be talked about.  Having a mental weakness or fighting mental battles don't equate crazy, they don't make you a bad wife, parent, or whatever else you are...they are NORMAL parts of life.  With our hectic lifestyles and the stress to DO IT ALL we should all be talking and working on our own mental health. 


Something I do in my down time of driving or when it is quiet in the office and I can listen while I work I have a handful of podcasts that I love to listen to.  A couple that are really informative and bring a lot of women's issues from business to health to the forefront and there are really important conversations had with some really smart people in each field.  Those podcasts are Goop and also Girlboss Radio.  Especially the Goop podcasts really makes you think about a lot of stuff and also helps you feel better about things that go on in every one's life.  Little failures or things you purposely let fail, the idea and image of having it all, and what the pressure of that idea does to a person, the balance of love, life, career etc., as well as self-love and self-care.  

A few of my own mental health struggles are worry and anxiety.  These two things can literally ruin DAYS and weeks of my life when out of control.  Thankfully I have started doing things to help me TRY to manage those two demons as well as identify things that have always helped me manage them.  As I get older and more in the know with issues of womanhood, adulthood, and possible pending motherhood the more I need to learn to manage my stress and anxiety so I can be the best version of myself.


To help sort through and make sure I am in the best possible place for myself, my husband, my career, etc... 

What I do physically to help myself mentally?

~Turning to my husband for help~
~Live a healthy lifestyle with healthy diet and a lot of fitness~
~Counseling~
~Down time with just me to relax, read, run errands, or just do exactly it is I want to do~
~Distance myself from toxic relationships that increased bad mental health issues~
~Listen to podcasts and stay informed~
~Research hot topics that could impact me so I am aware and prepared~

I understand there a lot more troubling and severe problems people have regarding mental health but these are my own personal struggles that are at times detrimental to my state of being.  I hope to get to a point that I don't have to worry about worry LOL!!!

Thursday, August 9, 2018

Girls Trip to Waco


On April 14th before it got blistering hot I planned a little mothers and daughter/ girls trip to Waco for a Saturday.  Jo's cookbook was coming out, my mom, Roelie (mother in-law), and myself all LOVE all things Gaines and the Magnolia Table restaurant had recently opened.  There was no better time to head to Waco early one Saturday morning to have brunch at Magnolia Table, enjoy the other projects the Gaines have around Waco and just do a little exploring. We left around 5 am and made it to Waco around 8.  The wait at Magnolia Table was already lengthy.  We ended up waiting right at 2 1/2 hours but enjoyed the outdoor waiting/sitting area and had a coffee.  The weather was still pretty chilly in those morning hours but it was ssooooo worth it!





There were people all the way from Ohio there just waiting to do all things Fixer Upper.  It was incredible, everything about the experience from the landscaping, the decor in the restaurant, the history, and the FOOD!  





We got the much talked about homemade biscuits and strawberry butter for the table and wow!!! Melt in your mouth is an understatement!  Just enough salt, just enough sweet, just couldn't get enough but we had to save room for all our other yummy plates coming up.  


I was a glutton and got a little bit of everything because I had to try a few things since we wouldn't be coming back all the time plus we needed to see if those biscuits and butter were a fluke LOL!  I also got a breakfast plate with sausage patties, medium eggs, and the most dense, moist, but heavenly hash brown nuggets EVER!  I had never had "hash browns" made this way and OMG I have no clue what they were made up of but it was so good almost like dough.  And the topper to me was the avocado toast.  If you were a Fixer Upper fan then you know there was one episode where the avocado toast was Jo's idea and Chip wasn't sold well let me tell you....I'm so glad I got this and I still have dreams of it today.  I would go back to the restaurant and wait 3 hours just for this toast.  The toast was a blend of grains with a half way chunky but creamy avocado spread topped with micro greens in basil olive oil and a side of red pepper flakes and sea salt to add as you would like..... wow my mouth is watering just reliving this experience. SO Good!  Just go and try it for yourself you will not be disappointed.  





After our brunch we left happy and with full bellies to hit up the little shop on Bosque, which was Jo's first baby.  It just so happened that the Saturday we were there was the last day the shop was going to be open for that season.  The shop there is only open a few days a season from what I understand and it has mostly past season's leftovers that are marked down.  We were glad we stopped and saw the little shop but we didn't find any must haves.  



After the first shop visit we headed downtown to visit the silo complex.  We walked around and there were TONS of people. I got a tea from one of the truck vendors that was so good and we loved the seed shop.  The gardens are so well thought out and put together I wish I could make my backyard like that it is such a little piece of Heaven on Earth!  The seed shop was quaint.  I got a hat and a plant lady tee.  We stopped all around and took pictures of everything and our last stop before heading over to the bakery was the Magnolia store that had all the housewares and such inside.  I came out with a sweatshirt and a cookbook about cooking things directly from your garden that also has some recipes and growing tips.  










After the store Mom and Roelie took all our merchandise to the car while I got in line for the bakery.  It took about an hour to get through the line and get our cupcakes.  We ended up getting a solid dozen with 4 different flavors 3 of each so we could also try a few and take some home to the men who missed out.  The bakery is really the only thing that I wasn't completely in love with.  It was really cute but the cupcakes weren't worth the wait in my opinion.  The white cake with chocolate icing was my favorite and I am glad we gave them a try but if I go back the bakery won't be a must stop especially if there is a line.  





After we enjoyed a cupcake we headed out to work our way back to the car and stopped at a few of the downtown shops along the way and also saw some really cool street art.  



It was early afternoon when we left the downtown Waco area so we decided to stroll over to Harp Design who is also a fixture on the Fixer Upper show.  It was so cool seeing one of the actual houses that Chip and Jo essentially rebuilt from the ground up and the Harp store/ workshop right next door.  We browsed the shop but that's all we did.  It was EXPENSIVE and that is an understatement LOL!  Really neat things though.  


Before we headed out on our 3 hour journey back home we stopped at Root Burger for an early supper.  None of us had ever ate there and it was really good and had a really cool vibe.


It was a long day but it was really rewarding and such a great experience that I got to share with my Mom and mother in-law.  Hopefully it won't be too long until we can take a short trip to another coveted town in Texas....maybe down South?? 

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