I don’t know where to begin on this post so I’m just going
to jump in there….
One year ago Hendrik and I became inseparable and romantically
linked all while knowing that although we hadn’t had the official its only you
talk for a couple more weeks we both new that we were together, we had been
wanting, and waiting for the perfect time to do this and now is it….done
deal. On that note I’ve just dedicated
July 4th as our anniversary because even before we knew…we knew and
everyone around us had known for quite some time (years if I tell the truth) so
I find it worthy the first “date” be our official anniversary.
This past year has been nothing but ups and although I know
it isn’t always like that in relationships and I don’t expect ours to always be
like that I can honestly say that this year has been. I’ve truly enjoyed getting to know the man I’ve
called my best friend for years on a whole other level and the closeness that
has followed is just amazing. I
’ve never
been so happy in my life and he is the man for me, no doubt. I love that we have so much in common but
still balance each other out. He is so
open minded can put up with me no matter my mood and listens to me. Hendrik is also so thoughtful and caring.
I can’t stay mad at him even if I want
to be and that pisses me off.
I still feel like we’ve only been dating a
month when in reality it’s been a whole year and we’ve been living together for
over 2 months now. We share equal parts
ambition and fun and those things are what my life is all about.
I cannot even imagine the great things that
this life has in store for us but I know that as long as we are together they
are going to be just that….GREAT!
I came across this article on a blog and just found it
fitting and I related to a lot of those things listed…I can say that after
reading that I feel like Hendrik and I have a healthy relationship….but before I
read it I knew that LOL it was fun seeing someone else’s perspective
From the conservative Charlotte on SATC… (1st
movie)
Carrie asks Samantha after Charlotte’s
baby shower how much she’s happy in her relationship and it goes around the
circle…when it gets it Charlotte she says
"everyday…not all day every day but every
day."
I believe her and I understand
her. I am happy every day that I’m with
Hendrik and every day I wake up knowing that we have a strong, trusting, and
secure bond with each other.
Here’s a glimpse of moments from the past year!
To many many many more pictures and years………..